(c)Linda
Goodman 2013
When
my family lived in the Appalachian Mountains of Virginia, we attended
the Stone Mountain Primitive Baptist Church. As in most Christian
churches, Easter was a special occasion. The service began at 10:00
a.m. with the Congregation singing resurrection hymns, such as He
Lives and Up
From the Grave He Arose.
After the hymns, the preacher would preach a sermon about the empty
tomb. Each year he would tell the story from a different perspective.
At the sermon's end, individuals would be invited to “ give their
testimonies.” That usually took a while. The service would end at
around 12:30.
For
the next half hour, while the ladies of the church put together the
covered dishes that had been brought to church for our Easter dinner,
we children hunted Easter eggs. The Easter Bunny laid colored eggs,
so they were not hard to find.
We
did not wear fancy Easter clothes at our church in the mountains. No
one could afford them. We wore the same clothes we wore every day,
making sure that they were clean and presentable.
When
my family moved to the city, my parents stopped going to church. I,
however, joined other neighborhood children in attending Asbury
Methodist Church on Deep Creek Boulevard in Portsmouth, Virginia.
This church had the convenience of being right across the street from
my apartment building.
My
first Easter at Asbury Methodist Church was one that I will long
remember. When my best friend Lori Ann, whose family always included
me as one of its own for church functions, saw me that fine April
Sunday, she blurted out, “Linda, where is your Easter dress?”
Lori
Ann was wearing a pink chiffon dress with a full skirt that ballooned
over a thick, white crinoline Her black patent leather shoes had been
replaced with white ones. That did not disturb me, as Lori Ann always
wore fancy dresses.
That
Easter day, however, I looked around the church and noticed that
every little girl there was wearing a fancy dress over a crinoline
and white patent leather shoes. Their mothers, I noticed, were all
wearing pastel suits and high heels. Pinned to their suit collars
were corsages of carnations, roses, or orchids.
I
was wearing a plain, light blue dress and scuffed brown loafers. I
had never felt embarrassed at Asbury before, but I did then.
“L
- Lori Ann,” I stuttered, “I – I forgot it was Easter.” I
could not tell her the truth; that I did not possess such finery to
wear.
Lori
Ann was incredulous. “How could you forget Easter? It's the second
most important holiday fo the year!”
As
I sat beside Lori Ann during Sunday School, my faced burned. I was so
ashamed of my plain attire that I could not concentrate on the lesson
that our teacher, Mrs. Hilton, was sharing with us that morning. All
I could think of was that I was different, that I would never fit
into city life. I decided that as soon as Sunday School was over, I
would sneak out the back door of the church and go home. I could not
bear to sit through the worship service as an object of pity in my
plain dress.
As
soon as class was over, I quickly ran out of the room and raced
toward the church's back door. Before I could make it through to the
outside, however, I heard someone calling my name. I knew the voice
well. It belonged to Mrs. Wade, Lori Ann's mother.
“Linda,
where are you off to?” she asked, catching up with me. “ I have
something for you. It's an Easter corsage.”
She
slipped an elastic band around my wrist. Attached to the band were
three lavender orchids. The glorious flowers covered my arm almost to
the elbow.
“Oh,
my!” I sighed. “It's beautiful. I've never had anything like it,
Mrs. Wade.”
“We
match!” she announced, and she held up her arm so that I could see
that she had the same corsage that I had.
I
noticed something else, as well. Mrs. Wade, who usually wore the most
beautiful suits in the entire congregation, was wearing a plain brown
shift with a brown leather belt around her waist. On her feet were
penny loafers.
She
took me by the hand and we walked into the sanctuary, where we
worshiped together. I no longer felt embarrassed or ashamed. I knew I
was where I was supposed to be.
I
was a teen before I realized the full extent of what Mrs. Wade had
done for me that day. Thanks to her, I no long felt out of place. She
had become my kindred spirit.
I
never got to thank her. She died of breast cancer three years after
that Easter. But I have thanked God for putting Mrs. Wade in my life.
And I am sure that He has passed that on to her.